How many times have I turned assignments in late because I didn’t have time, mainly practice ran over? How many parties have I missed because I’ve been out of town playing in tournaments? Way too many. But how many times have I been congratulated or applauded for my successes and efforts? About the same.

As a student-athlete, I have to constantly juggle my sports life, education and my social life. It’s not easy. Some aspects have to take a hit in order for my sports career to continue.

The first to fall behind is my social life. I have to constantly turn down invites to hang out or go to a party because I have to play the next day. It can be a killjoy. People start to assume that I am so devoted to my sport that it comes first in my life – which is true sometimes.

I regretfully admit that my sports career has caused my grades to suffer. Missing classes to go to games has caused me to have a lower understanding of the coursework which in turn, causes a lower grade. Lower grades means that I get to come home from practice to my yelling parents.

Then why do it? Because I love it. I wouldn’t trade the memories I’ve made with my teammates for anything. All the congratulations and bonds formed make up for everything.

Few things can compare to the feeling of walking through the hallways and hearing people say, “congratulations on your win.” Just that small recognition of all the hard work that you’ve put towards a goal of success makes it worth it.

Having people who are doing the same thing as you makes it a lot easier, too. I know that my teammates will always have my back no matter what. I trust and love them and they trust and love me. It’s honestly a committed relationship.

Being an athlete isn’t all that bad, but it can cause some harm if you don’t manage your time well. If you can, more power to you. If you’re an athlete reading this, good luck.